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Optimism Matters Overview from Optimism Matters on Vimeo.
Welcome to OptimismMatters.com! Check out our animated short on the Optimism Matters’ coaching philosophy and contact us for more information.
In Part 2 of this podcast, we further explore the “Nirvana Fallacy,” how it stifles your forward movement, and finally, actionable strategies to avoiding it. We also explore the way naysayers plant seeds of doubt, and how you can tune them out for good! Visit our the OMI Media page for more OMI podcasts and videos.
In The Devil Wears Prada, Meryl Streep’s character, über-critical boss-from-hell Miranda Priestly, pulls no punches regarding her reputation as a difficult boss. In fact, she revels in being difficult and attributes the success of the fashion magazine she runs to her cutthroat nature.
But could she have been a cuttthroat boss AND a good boss? The short answer is yes, of course. The longer answer? Yes, and it may be the best thing for your business, too!
That said, let’s really define cutthroat. According to the dictionary, when used as an adjective, it means “Ruthlessly competitive; dog-eat-dog.” By that definition, you can absolutely be a cutthroat good boss. Being ruthless about your customer service, quality of goods and delivery of products to your customer is something every boss should have top-of-mind.
But like Voltaire and Spiderman’s Uncle Ben said, “With great power comes great responsibility.” And with that responsibility, sometimes, you have to make the hard decisions, like whether or not to fire an employee.
New York Times “Thinking Entrepreneur” columnist Jay Goltz, recently spoke to a group of small family business owners and was asked “How do you balance a nurturing environment with being cutthroat?” Read Goltz’s insightful answer here.
“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”
Winston Churchill, Prime Minister of the United Kingdom

Now, before you start looking under your desk and behind your reference books for a nest of pesky gerunds, here’s a reminder about the gerund. During our grammar school years, we learned gerunds are verbs conjugated in the continuous and progressive aspect a.k.a. words that end in “-ing.” Words like “working”, “preparing”, “brainstorming” and the like.
The problem with gerunds is that they don’t contribute much to your day in terms of productivity and progress. They’re time suck words and anything involving a time suck is deadly to an entrepreneur. According to an article from Inc., gerunds “undermine accountability, and where there’s a lack of accountability there is usually a corresponding lack of productivity.”
The article provides an excellent before and after example from a military general of how gerunds sap productivity: Read more here.
According to MetLife’s fifth annual survey of American ideals, Americans’ priorities regarding what makes the “American Dream” are shifting. Despite past trends during times of economic uncertainty, Americans are less concerned with professional success and the trappings of material wealth, instead aspiring to a greater sense of personal fulfillment.
Sounds like the right approach – personal fulfillment over material wealth! Click the image to see the full infographic from GOOD + Column Five Media.
Does this scenario sound familiar? You have a goal. In order to begin moving toward that goal, you feel the stars must align and conditions must be perfect. The harsh reality is there is no perfect moment to take a risk, to make a change or to move toward achieving a goal.
In this podcast, we explore the “Nirvana Fallacy,” how it stifles your forward movement, and finally, actionable strategies to avoiding it. Check back for Part 2 of the Nirvana Fallacy next week, but in the meantime, visit our Media page for more OMI podcasts and videos.
Let’s end the week with some inspirational words from Madam C.J. Walker [December 23, 1867 – May 25, 1919], CEO of Madam C.J. Walker Laboratories, cosmetics industry maverick, and one of the first female African-American entrepreneurs:
“There is no royal, flower-strewn path to success. And if there is, I have not found it. For if I have accomplished anything in life, it is because I have been willing to work hard.”
“I had to make my own living and my own opportunity! But I made it! Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”
Watch Biography’s mini-bio on the life and legacy of Madam C.J. Walker.

We’ve been talking a lot on the blog about the Optimism Matters’ Professional Development Work Group Start Where You Are series of interactive teleclasses. But who better to tell you about the classes than Senior Principal Nick Whitenburg?
UPDATE: The teleclass dates mentioned in the audio clip have been updated! Please refer to teleclass dates as listed on the Start Where You Are page for the correct release dates. Thanks!
Whether it’s spam, an overly CC’d email from a coworker or four emails from mailing lists you’ve been meaning to unsubscribe to, our inboxes are filled with WAY too much email. Unless you’re one of those rare folks who methodically keeps a tidy inbox, you suffer from email overload, and unfortunately, are probably contributing to the email overload of someone else.
This infographic [click the image to view the entire infographic] from FastCoDesign.com guides the reader through a series of “choose your adventure”-like questions to help you decide whether or not to send that latest work email. With stats like $650 billion lost each year due to unnecessary emails, perhaps following these tips will make you think about email more purposefully vs. just sending emails out of habit.
Our favorite suggestion from the infographic: Instead of sending an email, get up and go talk to the person you were about to email. Not only does it get the blood flowing back to your legs, but you get some person-to-person interaction with a colleague. So, the takeaway? Take a moment to contemplate your emails before you send; mindful emailing makes for a more productive workforce!
In this brief podcast you’ll learn what to expect from the Money Bunny Group and how financial literacy can be a game changer in your life.